Book Review: Bones Would Rain from the Sky

Before I start my book review, I wanted to share that Tabi, the dog we fostered last weekend, got adopted today!! The shelter training director texted me this afternoon and gave me the good news, saying Tabi got a wonderful family. I don't know why, but I felt EXTRA happy about it. Maybe I had some guilt inside because I actually didn't feel much for Tabi. I liked her and thought she was a very nice dog, but I didn't feel a connection. I suppose it's good because I don't necessarily want feel like keeping every single dog that crosses our threshold. Yes, that's a very good thing, indeed. Still, I felt that Tabi deserved a good life, and I guess I felt guilty for not wanting to provide that for her personally. Hence, my relief and joy about her adoption today.


Bones Would Rain from the Sky by Suzanne Clothier has to be my all-time favorite dog book. It was beautifully written, and the information in it was so different from other dog books. Sometimes, you read a dog book and think, "I've read all this before in other dog books." I didn't feel that way at all this time.

The book is about having a relationship with your dog, not just training your dog by following some prescribed method or another. It's about taking the time to figure out what your dog needs and learning to communicate with each other. There are many examples in the book about dogs that had issues and who were brought to the author for help. Her approach was always positive, sincere, and thoughtful. She encourages readers to listen to our gut instinct. If it doesn't feel right to treat your dog in a certain way, don't do it. Many times, we get so much conflicting information from the "experts" and wonder who is right, who to listen to. Usually, we know inside what the right thing is, if we'd take the time to figure it out.

One of the most important points I got from this book is that being a dog lover should make you a better person. Sometimes, we can become "crazy dog people" who only care about dogs, while forgetting to be patient with the goofy kid at the grocery store or cursing behind the back of a mean boss or retreating from a difficult family member. If we can show kindness and patience to our dogs, we can extend the same kindness and patience to the people around us. We can learn from our dogs how to be more joyful, more forgiving, more loving.

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Book Review: The Lost Dogs

My vacation dog book reading riot included The Lost Dogs: Michael Vick's Dogs and their Tale of Rescue and Redemption. While I can't say that I thoroughly enjoyed this book, mostly because I found the writing style a bit dry and clumsy, the subject matter was very interesting.

Despite the sad beginning of this story, it truly is a happy "tale of rescue and redemption." Most of the dogs turn out to be loving, healthy pets, with quite a few of them passing the Canine Good Citizen test and even becoming therapy dogs. Only a very small percentage are yet unable to overcome their aggression toward other dogs. The majority of the dogs didn't want to fight at all, which was a big problem for Vick and a large part of the reason why he treated them so badly (as punishment for not fighting).

The myth about pit bulls being dangerous is so prevalent today. It's a travesty that these sweet, loving animals continue to be regarded as uncontrollable monsters. Pit bulls want so much to please their humans, and it is this very trait that makes them popular for dog fights. They do it, going against all their own instincts, because a human is MAKING them do it.

Meanwhile, I have my own pit bull rescue story, playing out at our local animal shelter. Here is pit bull Francie, pictured with my husband and shelter dog Loki, in the shelter play yard. With the exception of while I was in New York, I have been going to the shelter daily to exercise Francie for at least an hour. Some days, we run together, sometimes we walk. I try to vary the route and expose her to as many situations as possible. We have been back to the park for Chuck-It a couple times when it's quiet and we can keep a distance from other people and dogs. We go for car rides (she no longer humps the dog bed in the back seat), walk on busy streets, stroll through quiet neighborhoods, and shop at pet stores.

While I'm out and about town with Francie, I've noticed that she gets a lot of attention. It's probably a combination of factors--that Francie is a striking pure white, the disconnect of seeing a "scary pit bull" being walked by a 5' tall Asian woman, and that she walks SO nicely on leash. Oh yes, Francie has come a long way in her leash manners. She heels beautifully, sits at the stop lights, and when she sees a nice patch of grass, she lays down and rolls over for a delicious tummy rub--she is one affectionate girl.

On busy traffic days, I've had as many as 5 people poke their heads out of their car windows to yell things like, "What a great dog!" I decided to capitalize on this attention by making Francie a little jacket that says "Adopt Me". People probably just think she's my dog, but I want them to know she could be THEIR dog! My ploy is working because yesterday, a guy pulled over, rolled down his window, and handed me his business card, saying, "Give me a call about that dog!"

Hopefully, someone will adopt Francie soon. She's been at the shelter since November of last year, the poor baby. (She scratched her face yesterday by shoving her head under the chicken wire fencing in the kennels.) It will take the "right" kind of person to be a proper fit for Francie, but that person is out there. We just have to find him/her--soon!

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